Lord Ganesha's grace geared me up to get my self engaged the very next day,15th day of November1986, with Miss Bela Sarraf of Rajnagar, a small village in Bihar. The days of celebrations started in full swing, marriage date announced to be 22nd January1987,the earliest possible available date as per the muhurrat.  As the auspicious date drew near, the wrath of nature started its toll in full

It was the 14th day of November 1986,an important crisis had emerged.I, till then had strong opinion against marriage, such that my diary opened with words'"I'll marry but have only one wife,I'll be married to a single life"   I, all fresh and jubilant stood before Lord Ganesha,four chits in hand containing names of prospective gorgeous life partner to be,. chit `"Postpone till eternity,"